Traditionally, who pays for what at a wedding?
Most couples now pay for their wedding entirely on their own however, following western tradition, there are set areas that each family was expected to pay for. This changes within different cultures, though attendants (wedding party members) responsibilities have not changed. Should you be fortunate enough to have family assistance with your wedding costs, the following guide may assist with navigation on where each side of the family can help.
Bride’s Family
Wedding ring for the groom
Wedding gift for the groom
Gifts for attendants
Accommodation for out-of-town bridesmaids
Ceremony decor and venue costs
All costs of the reception, including the bar
Bride’s wedding attire
invitations, announcements, thank-you notes and mailing costs
Photography/videography
Flowers and accessories for bridesmaids, flower girl(s) and ring bearer(s)
Transportation for bridal party on wedding day from ceremony to reception
All gratuities for all services (parking, security, venue, caterer, etc.)
Groom’s Family
Bride’s rings, including engagement ring
Honeymoon
Wedding gift for the bride
Marriage license
Groomsmen gifts
Accommodation for out-of-town groomsmen
Flowers for the bride
Going-away corsage
Corsages for mothers and special ladies
Boutonnieres for men in wedding party
Gloves, ties and accessories for groomsmen
Fee for clergy-person or judge
Groom’s wedding attire
Travel and lodging expenses
Rehearsal dinner
Wedding gift for the newlyweds
Attendants
Their wedding clothes and shoes
Travel expenses, less accommodation costs
Wedding gift for newlyweds
Women: bridal shower
Men: bachelor party